The theme of forgiveness seems to be a thread running through my week. It's been paramount in our study of The Patriarchs, specifically Joseph, in our Beth Moore Bible Study class. In our video session with Beth and as part of our homework, we've been studying about Joseph and his relationship with his brothers. We all know the story, but I think we sometimes have a tendency to skim over the details. When Joseph first recognized his brothers when they came to buy grain, he warred with his flesh in dealing with them. His feelings ran the gamut of emotions as he struggled with the many years of pain he'd gone through due to his brothers having sold him into slavery many years previously. His life would be characterized by integrity, but just like all of us, he had his moments of wanting revenge and carrying unforgiveness in his heart. In the end, he told his brothers who he was and wept as he kissed each one. He displayed true brotherly love and forgiveness. I've always loved that verse from Genesis 50:20, "As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good, to bring it about that many people should be kept alive, as they are today."
Isn't it true that when we hold unforgiveness against another person, we are the ones who are in prison? They have gone on with their lives, but we are holding on to the hurt and anger and the resolve to "get even". We don't take the time to consider that Jesus forgave us and that His Word tells us we must forgive those who have wronged us in any way.
I'm so thankful that the Lord has forgiven me - past, present and future and that He never counts the many times He's done so. I have a fresh, clean slate every morning as I begin my day. I know there have been times I have grieved the heart of God, yet He has forgiven me "seventy times seven." He is the only one who truly loves us unconditionally.
Forgiveness is a process. It must be a conscious effort on our part. It isn't necessary that we "feel" like forgiving someone; those feelings most likely will come later, but we must continue to pray and ask the Lord to help us forgive until we know in our hearts that it has happened. This is hard and would be impossible without God, but if we ask Him, Jesus will help us do the right thing. And oh, we'll be so glad we did! Nothing lightens my heart like knowing I have let go of grudges, resentment and offenses.
We also need to make sure we ask for forgiveness when
we've harmed another person. Even if it wasn't on purpose and/or we don't think we did anything wrong, I think it's important to let that person know we're sorry if we've done anything to hurt them. We should do everything we can to bring about healing in the situation.
Dear Jesus, I thank You for forgiving my sins. I thank You for Your patience, Your love and Your willing heart to forgive me when I stumble and fall. Help me to have a humble and forgiving heart and not to take offense at something someone may say to me. Help me to offer love and forgiveness to my fellow travelers on this journey we're on and may I have a sensitive spirit so that I may ask forgiveness of anyone I have hurt. In Your precious and wonderful Name I pray, Amen.
A recent vintage BD card I made for a friend:
President Lincoln's Thanksgiving Day Proclamation
The year that is drawing towards its close, has been filled with the blessings of fruitful fields and healthful skies. To these bounties, which are so constantly enjoyed that we are prone to forget the source from which they come, others have been added, which are of so extraordinary a nature, that they cannot fail to penetrate and soften even the heart which is habitually insensible to the ever watchful providence of Almighty God.
In the midst of a civil war of unequaled magnitude and severity, which has sometimes seemed to foreign States to invite and to provoke their aggression, peace has been preserved with all nations, order has been maintained, the laws have been respected and obeyed, and harmony has prevailed everywhere except in the theatre of military conflict; while that theatre has been greatly contracted by the advancing armies and navies of the Union.
Needful diversions of wealth and of strength from the fields of peaceful industry to the national defense, have not arrested the plough, the shuttle or the ship; the axe has enlarged the borders of our settlements, and the mines, as well of iron and coal as of the precious metals, have yielded even more abundantly than heretofore.
Population has steadily increased, notwithstanding the waste that has been made in the camp, the siege and the battlefield; and the country, rejoicing in the consciousness of augmented strength and vigor, is permitted to expect continuance of years with large increase of freedom.
No human counsel hath devised nor hath any mortal hand worked out these great things. They are the gracious gifts of the Most High God, who, while dealing with us in anger for our sins, hath nevertheless remembered mercy. It has seemed to me fit and proper that they should be solemnly, reverently and gratefully acknowledged as with one heart and one voice by the whole American People.
I do therefore invite my fellow citizens in every part of the United States, and also those who are at sea and those who are sojourning in foreign lands, to set apart and observe the last Thursday of November next, as a day of Thanksgiving and Praise to our beneficent Father who dwelleth in the Heavens.
And I recommend to them that while offering up the ascriptions justly due to Him for such singular deliverances and blessings, they do also, with humble penitence for our national perverseness and disobedience, commend to His tender care all those who have become widows, orphans, mourners or sufferers in the lamentable civil strife in which we are unavoidably engaged, and fervently implore the interposition of the Almighty Hand to heal the wounds of the nation and to restore it as soon as may be consistent with the Divine purposes to the full enjoyment of peace, harmony, tranquility and Union.
In testimony whereof, I have hereunto set my hand and caused the Seal of the United States to be affixed. Done at the City of Washington, this Third day of October, in the year of our Lord one thousand eight hundred and sixty-three, and of the Independence of the United States the Eighty-eighth.
The first Thanksgiving: